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Why wear a cock ring...
There are many reasons why men wear cock rings. Many find that using a cock ring assists in maintaining a good full on erection during sexual activity. Others will wear them for cosmetic reasons, just like they wear any other piece of jewellery, as they give a great visual effect by enhancing the look and the length of the cock. I personally wear one because it makes me feel sexy, and because it pulls my balls away from the warmth of my body allowing me a more intensified sensation during orgasm. Wearing a cock ring puts pressure on the tube through which semen travels, and therefore also helps to delays ejaculation. Many men wear a cock ring all the time, proudly displaying their "assets" as the ring pushes the whole package forward.
Many different types and sizes...Cock rings come in many different styles and sizes. It is very important that you find one that is the right size for you. To work out what is the right size for you. Cup your balls in your hand pulling them gently away from your body. Use your biggest finger and thumb to go behind your balls, encircles your cock and balls where the cock ring would go. Maintain this for at least a few minutes. Let your cock go flaccid for a while and then get another strong erection. Then use a piece of string where you were using your finger and thumb to measure the circumference. It is really important that your cock is fully erect. Then divide the result by 3.14 to get the diameter. And that's the best size of cock ring to get. Cock rings are usually measured in millimeters. A loose cock ring does nothing, and may slide off. An over tight ring may cut off all retreating blood flow, giving you an amazing but painful erection. There are eight main cock ring sizes, 55 mm, 52.5mm and 50mm(these sizes are referred to as large) 47.5 mm, 45 mm, and 42.5(the medium sizes. 40 mm and 37.5 (the smallest sizes). The best way to find the right fit is to try the cock ring on. Initially wear a cock ring for 20 to 30 minutes at the most and remove it if it starts to feels uncomfortable. If your cock starts to become a darker colour, remove the ring and let some fresh blood into your cock before putting it back on.
Putting The Ring On...Always put the cock ring on before you get an erection. Make sure your balls are relaxed by pulling them gently away from your body. Gently pull one of your balls through, then the other. Push your flaccid cock behind the ring and then pull that through. You may like to use some lubricant and warm the ring with your hands before you put it on.
Getting it off ...Wait till your cock is flaccid, then it's simply the reverse of putting it on. Pull the ring as far down away from your flaccid cock as the balls will allow. Put a bit of lube on your cock and push it under the ring. Then gradually pull the ring away from your balls one at a time. The balls should pop out easily. Wash the ring in soap and water, and store dry
Dear Seb, On one level, you wear a cock ring to maintain your erection by regulating blood flow. But when I put on a cock ring, I feel like am both physically and spiritually amplifying my "cock-mind"- intensifying the pleasure and pride of having a cock. It's almost like I'm putting a ring on my cock to really feel married to it. I like silicon more... nowadays, because it feels friendlier. In general, I have been moving away from harder, penetrative scenes, toward softer, more "cooperative" ones. Cumming soft, after intense play (sometimes including prostate massage), is my new favorite thing- and I find silicon rings work better for those circumstances. For me, metal cock rings have always been more for public play- bars, sex clubs, and such. Size is crucial... for the same reason a tailored suit is: every cock, like every body, is unique. The right size promotes optimum awareness without being overly intrusive or restrictive.
Applying the cock ring correctly...means focusing your and your partner's attention effectively onto the "theater of cock"-- which may be small in size, compared with the entire human body, but expansive in scale. In other words, donning a cock ring puts everyone on alert that our cocks are now the biggest and most important things in the room. For a long time now I have been shaving my cock and trimming my pubic area, for just this reason: to focus on the theater of cock. Of course, cock rings- especially the silicon kind- are easier to use in a trimmed and shaved area. It's always nice... when you meet someone with an entire collection of cock-rings. Sharing them become a lovely extension of sexual hospitality. A sexual host of true generosity might even have several on hand to give as souvenirs- the way Martha Stewart-type hostesses stock guest bathrooms with new toothbrushes that guests can take away.I hope some of this might be helpful. I am wishing you the best for your article and, as always, your amazing work. Best, __Steve
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